A derision is a commentary or a gesture which has the purpose of ridicule to one person , an object or a situation. According to the context and geographical region, mockery can be considered as a synonym for joke , joke , joke or loaded .
For example: "The teacher, when he noticed that Raul was making fun of him, punished him immediately", "I guess the president was not serious, since his words were a mockery to all the inhabitants of this city", "I'm tired of being teased by my last name".
Teasing can be taken as something positive or negative according to the context . When two or more people have confidence in each other and are interacting in a pleasant way, they can make fun of each other without any harm. Usually, in these cases the mockery is taken as something nice that causes grace and that is fun. Suppose a man he is chatting with a friend and confuses his name, calling him in another way; The person referred to in the wrong way can laugh and make fun of his interlocutor for his mistake, without that offending the first.
Instead, when the teasing pretends humiliate on the other, it is a condemnable and dangerous matter. An individual can become the center of teasing for his religion , his dress, his physical appearance or his sexuality, among other possibilities, and this is not pleasant for anyone. If the teasing is repeated in a sustained way, you can even talk about bullying. Several examples of this type of mockery can be found in schools, when some children are constantly molested by their peers and become victims of the phenomenon known as bullying .
The teasing at school
Thousands of children go through this daily, and most do not know how to deal with it. They get up early to go to school, fighting between the need not to disappoint their elders and the fear of approaching that building in which they will suffer a great number of unpleasant and offensive situations that they believe are impossible to avoid. The mockery is like another classmate, like a presence that awaits them at school and doesn't get tired of acting.
Unfortunately, both the attitude of the abusers and the weakness of the abused have their roots in the upbringing, in the way of being of their elders and in their teachings; This makes a situation that should be a mere confrontation between two sides become very complex, such as a network of distorted values that branches for several generations and continues to do hurt as it develops. A resentful father who transmits his frustration to his children sows a dangerous seed that not only does not repair his own suffering but puts the well-being of third parties at risk.
In an ideal world there would be no mockery. Why laugh at differences, instead of learning from them? What is funny about a partner's excess weight, or the size of his nose or ears? Does our body really want to respond with laughter to a disease like Asperger's syndrome or Parkinson's disease? It is unacceptable that our species is capable of causing so much damage for free, but there are reasons behind such evil.
Behind every abuser there is usually abuse. A child who mocks has been the victim of mockery before, or continues to be in another environment. Violence breeds violence, a popular saying of our language, as true as few, but not repeated enough. The mockery may seem innocent, but it is so serious that it can lead to suicide or depression, if it is not channeled affecting more people.